PATRICIA CONRAD M.D.

Gynecologist

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Preparing For My Appointment

Preparing For Your Appointment


The Best Time To See Me

When is the best time to schedule an appointment?

If you are like most women, you set up your annual gynecological appointment to fit your busy schedule and your doctor’s. But there are times that are better than others for having a Pap test done, because it is easier to get a clean sample. The best time to have a Pap smear is two weeks after the first day of your menstrual period, if you are still having periods, so try to set your appointment up for then. If you are no longer having periods, any time is fine.

Things To Tell Me About

I never feel prepared for my appointments. What should I do beforehand? What should I bring with me?

You don’t have to do anything special to prepare for the exam itself, but there are some things you should not do before a Pap test:

  • douche for three days beforehand
  • insert any vaginal medicine or lubricants for three days beforehand
  • have sex, even with a condom, for at least a day

To make it easy for the cytologist to see the cervical and endocervical cells on your smear, you want to have as little extraneous material as possible end up on the slide. So if you are having your period, or even spotting, you should postpone your Pap test.

To get the most out of your appointment, there are some things you should think about and write down beforehand. The thing everybody forgets is the date of their last menstrual period, so make a note of that.

I like my patients to write down any questions they'd like to ask me, since it's hard to remember everything when you are being examined.

There are lots of things that patients think a gynecologist doesn't treat, so they don't bother to mention them. And sometimes, people don't realize that what they have is actually a medical problem that they can get treatment for. Headaches that are caused by hormone problems, as we discussed above, are a good example of this.

Headaches

I have had really bad headaches about once a month for a couple of years. Over-the-counter headache medication doesn't even touch them. I have to lie down in a dark room until I can throw up, and then I feel fine. Is there prescription medicine available for these kinds of headaches?

It sounds like what you are having are migraines. The fact that they occur once a month makes me think that they might be hormone-related. Many types of migraine are due to estrogen fluctuations. Of course, I'd have to examine you to be sure. But estrogen-related headaches are easily treated with birth control pills, if it turns out that it is just a matter of regulating your estrogen levels.

There are lots of types of headaches, and different treatment methods for each. If you have a history of frequent headaches, you should keep a diary of when they occurred, under what circumstances, how long they lasted, what got rid of them, if anything, and what your symptoms were (i.e., pain between your eyes or on one side of your head, auras, sinus pain, nausea).

I know that most women wouldn't consider making a special trip to the doctor just because they're having headaches, but in some cases, they should. Especially if the headaches are frequently and debilitating. It is important to give your doctor as much information as you can about your headaches, so she can treat them properly. Make sure you bring your headache diary, and a list of any questions you have, along with you on your next doctor visit. There are many new medications on the market, both prescription and over-the-counter, that can help.

Depression

I have been really depressed lately. Things are not going well at work, and I just broke up with my boyfriend of seven years. I don't even remember how to meet guys, and I don't really feel up to it. I just go home and sleep after work. I know things aren't going to get better by themselves, but I don't even know where to start to get help. What kind of doctor should I look for?

If your gynecologist is your primary care physician, you should start there, with a complete physical. Your gynecologist will be able to compare your current test results with past ones to see if there's anything physical going on that needs to be treated. Things like perimenopause and low thyroid function can cause symptoms of depression. So can the kinds of stress brought on by major life changes, such as the breaking up of a long-term relationship, or constant job pressure. Once the physical side of things has been evaluated, your doctor may give you medication, or recommend a psychiatrist/psychologist for talk therapy, or both.

Weight/Eating Problems

I have gained a lot of weight since I quit smoking. I am hungry all the time. I wonder if I have some kind of thyroid problem, or a tapeworm or something. What should I do?

When you inhale cigarette smoke, nicotinic acid releases sugar into your bloodstream, so you don't feel hungry. Your body keeps looking for this continuous sugar rush after you've quit smoking, and when it doesn't find it from smoking, it looks for an alternate source--food. This is why people increase their food intake after they've quit smoking.

If you haven't been in for a physical lately, you should have one, just to rule out any other physical causes for your hunger. If eating is becoming a serious problem, you should discuss going on a diet with your doctor. Also ask about the possibility of taking a prescription diet aid, such as Wellbutrin, Zyban, or Meridia, which help you control your appetite, or Xenical, which blocks fat absorption. Weight gain can cause so many serious health problems that it is a good idea to combat the problem before it gets out of control.